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Out of here Friday

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Happy Birthday to Me. STBX just finished his meeting with our State people. They will hand over our check at 5pm on Weds.

We have Mediation Friday Morning, then I guess I am out of here. Need to book a flight.

I got my call from the property owner...Since I didn't have anything Solid to say, I turned Minnie Mouse Voice...I hate when that happens. At the end of the conversation he said that he could hear the stress in my voice and hoped that I found what I "needed" out there...OMG, I wanted to find a rock and crawl under it!!!

This is Sooooo NOT ME!!! No one has ever felt sorry for me...I am not this kind of person.
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Hang in there! You will find the 'you' inside again soon! Hope all goes well getting your $$ & with mediation.
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*HUG* soon you will get to move on.... I don't feel sorry for you but I DO FEEL sorry for what you're going through (big difference)...I wish you the best w/ your mediation!!
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feeling compassion, caring, sympathy, empathy; those do not equate to feeling "sorry" for someone.

how you can confuse any of those words with someone feeling "sorry" for you is beyond me.

as i've said to you before...you have been a wealth of support and strength for me.

how can anyone feel sorry for someone as strong and awesome as you???

the only feeling sorry here should be for your stbx...sorry ass, sorry shit, sorry f'r...etc...

sorry...just had to vent a tad...
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I tend to agree with pit on the property owner's comment, and also about how strong you are. I think he was just trying to be compassionate as well as hopeful that it all falls in place. In any event, the rest of your post is great news! I am glad to hear you are on your way. Best of luck with it all.
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Tami, I hope you find what you need and deserve out there! I agree with everyone else--I hope you find what you need not because I feel sorry for you, but because you deserve it!!
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WOOOOO HOOOO Tami!~! I am SO happy that you are getting your money on Wed!~!
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happy birthday! hang in there and good luck.

one love.....
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Actually, My Birthday is Next Monday...I have been Hoping not to spend it Here. Now I am Scared about spending it There...Oh, I am just never Happy :-/

Maybe I will at least have gotten something squared away.
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wishing you safe travels
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Tami-I'm excited for you!!!! I think this move will be a real turning point for you. Good luck with the stress of the rest of the week dear. HUGS!!!!
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