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OT/ Gift idea for a guy?

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Can you guys help me out with a perfect gift for a guy that I'm trying to make fall in love with me again? Yeah, yeah - I know I cant save a marriage alone, but I sure as heck will try.
I need one perfect gift that is something I can casually give to him as a friend and say - Hey honey, I found/saw this and just HAD to buy it for you.
Not too expensive, $0 > $200.

He: Proud to be Engineer, late thirties, loves sailing and his 25' Catalina - dreams of upgrading to new larger boat and sail overseas. Likes country music, buying new cars and travels a lot for work.

So I've been searchin E-bay in 3 countries for something connected to sailing - with no luck so far. Anyone else that can give me an idea what to look for?
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Save your money.. material possessions won't win a guy back.. try writing him a heartfelt letter and just giving it to him... or make a collague of his favorite pictures.. or a cd of amazing songs... these thoughtful gifts will have a far greater impact that monetary one...
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Since he likes sailing so much, what about getting him one of those REALLY nice sailboats in one of the glass bottles?
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There has been too much letters- no more obvious pushing. It has to be casual and funny or special - he needs to believe it's given from a good friend and not a clingy wife. Cant be something that took me hours to do for that reason.
Sailboat in bottle could have been it if I had found a rare or special one.
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I think you are deluding yourself. nothing you can buy will "win " him back..

Men please comment.
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Never mind the story behind, I have my own agenda and this is just a small part of it. Just looking for a gift idea.
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Buy your self a rain coat and show up at his place in just it. No trying to be crude but I am a guy and I would remember that many, many years.
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Wick given your current avatar. that is too funny.....
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The rain coat industry and I have no endorsement deal and I did not think of that till you brought that up Cherub, to funny.
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How about an IPod with his favorite tunes already downloaded.
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oh Guy what a perfect idea! I was going to suggest "navigator balls"..but um...oh nevermind!
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