I have this guy at work (major weird...possibly gay but on his 3rd marriage) who is a bully. He's not my boss but he "plays boss". I really believe that he's trying to get me fired. I haven't let on to very many at work that I'm divorced, moving or anything so he get's really bent out of shape because his self esteem is tied to everyone thinking he's fabulous. He solves everything by making you a pie! God help you if you don't spend the day complimenting his pie and demanding the recipe! I have been burnt too many time getting too close to co-workers so I stay my distance but this guy feeds on having everyone as "friends". Can't be just co-workers to save his life. Can't be professional. He's out to twist everything I do into something awful. Today after I used my asthma inhaler and tried to stiffle a sneeze, he ran to the boss's office and told her I was laughing at him. **sheesh** I'm selling my home and closing on the new house next Thursday and can't afford to lose my job over this a*s! I've tried to swallow it all and be neutral but what do you do with someone who is trying to get you layed off or worse?
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