Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I have this guy at work (major weird...possibly gay but on his 3rd marriage) who is a bully. He's not my boss but he "plays boss". I really believe that he's trying to get me fired. I haven't let on to very many at work that I'm divorced, moving or anything so he get's really bent out of shape because his self esteem is tied to everyone thinking he's fabulous. He solves everything by making you a pie! God help you if you don't spend the day complimenting his pie and demanding the recipe! I have been burnt too many time getting too close to co-workers so I stay my distance but this guy feeds on having everyone as "friends". Can't be just co-workers to save his life. Can't be professional. He's out to twist everything I do into something awful. Today after I used my asthma inhaler and tried to stiffle a sneeze, he ran to the boss's office and told her I was laughing at him. **sheesh** I'm selling my home and closing on the new house next Thursday and can't afford to lose my job over this a*s! I've tried to swallow it all and be neutral but what do you do with someone who is trying to get you layed off or worse?
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When nobody is interested, aloneness is the only path available. Online if you don't look like, or are, a celebrity or model, forget it. Time passes but nothing changes.
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
What type of pie?
P.S. I just found out my boss is totally trying to get my job...since his position is about to be eliminated. So I do feel ya on that.. I laugh.. sorry not much help.. here but.. tell him to stop wearing his last season PRADA shoes..
maybe he'll back off!
It really sucks when people act like this. I thought that we had graduated from highschool but it seems that you never get away from people with that mentality. It also seems that people tend to gang up on someone that they view as weak or having problems because it makes them feel better and more stable.
Hold your ground and stay true to who you are.
By the way, I am an awesome cook, but I don't take offense if something I make is not what they like (ok, we don't talk about the authentic paella)
Lynne
Just end every sentence with the shoe comment..
Fuzz.. Do you need me to come over and slap him around..? I will.. I swear..
Case in point. He brought some candy with coconut in it. He asked me if I tried it (sitting in the break room). I told him I don't like coconut, so I hadn't. He pushes the coconut candy at me saying this really doesn't taste much like coconut. I insist I don't want to try it. He continues to tell me to try a little of it (vested in me liking the damn candy/pie/cake...etc). I taste a little of it. Then for the next 6 hours he solicits my opinion of the candy I hated that I now have to lie about. He goes on and on about how wonderful this is.
I'll make you a pie for your trouble.
Can you say hostile work environment? Tell him under no uncertain terms to leave you alone. If he continues to bother you, that's sexual harrassment. Get HIS ass fired.