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I'll try to keep it short. My adulterous stbx left the state. She is bitter angery and hatefull against me. Go figure, I thought that was my job. I am a person with high morals,self worth, so on so on. I bought a dog for her 8 years ago on her B-day. It was a gift. She up and left like I said and now she wants the dog. It was a gift, but in the 8 years I have cared for it loved it just as much. This may sound stupid to some people in here, but I feel in tyhe best interest of the pet that she should remain with me. I bring her to work with me, four days a week and I'm at home most of the time, blaa,blaa,blaa. I would like to keep the dog, but in my gut I know it was a gift. My standards and values tell me to let her have the dog. Now that is two loves gone out of my life. My divorce emotions get it my way of the right decision. Please place you vote.
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A Dog is NOT a piece of furniture or jewlry...even though the court will treat it as such. If it is AKC/CKC registered, they will award it to the registered owner.
I see Pets as I see children (no not same rights, just same principal) You say that this Dog goes to work with you? Then YOU Obviously have More Time for the Dog than she does.
That Dog sees YOU as its Person.
Do NOT willingly change that Dogs life.
Ask her what Her plans to care for it would be. Put her on the spot.
In truth, the Boxers were "ours". The female is Mine, the male was his. They would not do well seperated...that is fact. He is on job sites 80% of the time and cannot tend to a dog. There Was no consideration of Custody here.
Darned Good Thing. No one gets between me and my Dogs.
I am even considering starting a Business so that I am NOT leaving them alone-they do get into mischief.
So, you have the Vote of a Dog Person. Keep The Dog!!!
I have to goldens I love to death! Fortunately they were gifts to me from him, so they stay.
Good Luck with your decision.
About a year ago I went to same dog pound and got a cat. One big happy family now...lol.