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anyhow.. how long have you been married?.. and do you want to remain on his medical?..dental?.. insurance?... get a portion of his pension ?... do you have joint assets?.. joint debts?...you got to think about a lot of stuff... I mean... don't sign away anything without first maybe touching base with a lawyer or a legal professional.
Otherwise, I would say it doesn't really matter unless you're rich. And you wouldn't be using an online service if you were.
be careful.. I mean.. the simpliest thing such as a pet or a car.. stuff.... that should be put down in writing... you got to protect yourself.
He could go run up the joint Visa card and get you into a lot of debt.. ..
lots of things to talk to a lawyer about.. ..hmmmm....
I checked out some of them too.. but we're talking about my future here, so I wanted someone I can talk to who would make sure everything was done fair and equitable
I can still get screwed but at least I have a brick and mortar building to go to to discuss my situation(s)
Hdwi, sorry to disappoint, but you definitely need to go see a lawyer.
Even if you think you can use a do it yourself service, I would take the final paperwork, pay for an hour or two of a lawyer's time, and have them review it with you.
This is the absolutely classic situation where an ounce of prevention can be worth a pound of cure.
Remember, you may think of your STBX as your best friend, but in fact, he/she no longer is. They have the capacity, at least, for morphing into your worst enemy amazingly quickly.