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One less decision for me...

deleted_user
deleted_user
Found out that stbx pawned both our wedding rings. I guess I don't have to worry about what to do with my wedding ring now, huh?

I guess that's life's little way of saying, "Hey does this hurt? No? Well let me shove a little harder."

Well, that's another step completed in my master plan to phase myself out completely. ;)
deleted_user
deleted_user
So do you get half of what ever she pawned the for.
JennyN
JennyN
OH, that sucks! I am so sorry....what a piece of _____ your ex is!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Her claim is that we needed groceries more than we needed the rings. Of course, my reply was we needed to stick to our budget rather than have you overspend by $1000 a month for six months straight. I could be wrong, but I don't think so.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ouch...so sorry Banana Man. Maybe it's time to think about splitting the finanaces if she's going to be so irresponsible with money??
deleted_user
deleted_user
Belzar...you make out good...my stbx ran up 14 to 15 thousand a month until she emptied the accounts down. She has is stashed somewhere.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I've already opened a second bank account that she doesn't have access to. I hated to do that but seemed to be my only option to get the money situation under control. I guess my problem with the ring is that, even with our situation, that ring still represented 17 years of my life.

Oh well, it's probably for the better.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Mike, you make living check to check not sound so bad. Ouch...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm sorry, that sucked of her.

I can see her pawning her rings but she shouldn't have decided what to do with yours.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My stbx took my rings and said he was going to pawn them just for spite. My lawyer put a stop to that. He was to return the rings to me, or if he had already pawned them, he was to put the money into an account to be divided up after the divorce. He didn't sell them and I now have them. I was very upset when I had first found that they were gone.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well, I knew she had pawned her rings a couple weeks ago (I won't lie, it kind of hurt). However, I had been keeping mine on my keyring and noticed it wasn't there this morning. So, yeah, it bothered me that she took it upon herself to rid me of said item.
Garrison
Garrison
She took your ring from you without you knowing or talking to you about it?????

HOLY. CRAP.

I do not know how you handled it, but I would have FLIPPED.
deleted_user
deleted_user
It bothered me when I finally got her to admit to it this morning (threatened to report it as a stolen item). However, the more I think about it and talk about it on here, the more I think it might just be time to go see a lawyer.
LisaACOA
LisaACOA
I can not even imagine that. I am truly sorry. A person is pretty low if they can do something like that. You really deserve so much better and I know you will get it. A friend of mine said it like this... "She wasn't the person, I thought I had." I think that sums it up pretty good. I am here for you, if you need to talk.

Your friend,

Lisa
abusehurts
deleted_user
deleted_user
It is amazing how low they will get. That is why as soon as I noticed mine were not in my jewelry box anymore, I called my lawyer. I don't ever plan on wearing them again, but I would like to hang onto them. I still have a ring from when I was engaged at 16. I don't ever wear that but it is tucked away. They do hold memories and even though we are ending, there were a few good times.
deleted_user
deleted_user
she stole it. that's rotten. what kind of person does that, when i got divorced i sold my ring, who cares what he did with his. it was only 40.00 bucks and i paid for it two.
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