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Perhaps he shows his guilt in that he wants to remain friends and still wants to take care of any problems I have with the house or car. He still wants to be able to come into my house and hang out, come to family functions, etc.
I just want the peace of mind that he isn't thinking that I am just the cold-hearted bitch who is shutting him out out of spite. I am not cutting off communication for that reason; it is because it is too painful for my and my family. Our last communication was a couple of months ago. He wants me to let him know how the kids are, but they have made it clear they want him to know nothing about them. He said they never have to know that I am keeping him updated.
I am being honest, but sometimes my words are misconstrued which has been a problem in the past because I am blunt and don't realize the possibility of the interpretation.
Do not lie to your children by going against their wishes. He is trying to get you to lie to them like he got them to lie to you.