Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am so lonely. I just wish I could fill this void with someone other than another woman, then she wouldn't be so powerful! She slays me with my need for her. I do not sway outwardly yet she can probably read most of my pain from my silence. Otherwise why is it that after 2 months now of my moving out can she attack me with such vigor. The fire and brimstone has left from her speech. Yet her reverse psychology and behavior, basically mentally and verbally abusing me as I did her is undeniable (though she denies it every time (except that one time she apologized (still so confused by that))).
She keeps attacking our differences, knowing I got nothing to say to that. We were different this is what she repeated so many times during our courting. Now it works against me and this new guy is so southern. I really get the rationale that he is so different from me he doesnt even have to work to get her (this hurts). Much like a 16 year old liking a thug just because there father is so different and wouldn't approve. Yet she's to old 28 (school teacher (go figure) to be going through a phase. RITE?
She keeps attacking our differences, knowing I got nothing to say to that. We were different this is what she repeated so many times during our courting. Now it works against me and this new guy is so southern. I really get the rationale that he is so different from me he doesnt even have to work to get her (this hurts). Much like a 16 year old liking a thug just because there father is so different and wouldn't approve. Yet she's to old 28 (school teacher (go figure) to be going through a phase. RITE?
-
theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
-
I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
This is EXACTLY the situation we are talking about. You may be trying to replace one codependancy with another. It may not be easy at first but you have to own your own happiness.
I called specifically because I missed the kids, and in avoiding her I am not seeing or hearing from my kids. At least till I get my sh@#E$@#t together.
When I had them last keeping them over night I was falling apart just about every half hour.
Anyway I want to tell her to leave me alone, and never pickup the phone when she calls but can't for legitimate business. If I go off on her when she attacks me or gives me information I didn't ask for and don't want she'll will either attack more directly or end the conversation. The latter has happened many times, and so therefore I don't complete the plans to see the children, or a bill isn't paid etc. It's like I have no options.