omg omg i am shocked and know someone on here is going to tell you something helpful. omg i am sooo sorry.

OMG, I'm crying here for your son! Thank goodness you were able to calm him down enough to talk to him. Bless you for allowing him the safety net to reveal his deepest thoughts and express himself freely with you!

Schedule a therapist visit with an expert ASAP before this becomes a lifelong issue for him.

Give him a HUGE hug too and tell him you love him all day long.

Sending strenght and peace your way!

OMG luv... I am SO SO sorry that your STBX is putting YOUR kids & you through this. Yes, he does need a psychologist. Also, you & your daughter need to get in to see one too. If it were me, I think I would be talking to my attorney about this also & see if there is ANY way to get his visitations cut or get them to where he can see them when he is SUPERVISED!~! (((((((HUGS)))))))) to you & your children!~!

I find this very disturbing that a parent (mother or father) would let their child see nude pictures on the computer. Get your children psycholigical help fast! who knows what else they have been exposed too! Also I would talk to your lawyer and have only supervised visitation rights given to stbx. That is totally perverted and sick!

OMG. I am so sorry for what you and your kids are going through. I agree with the others. You need to get some help for your son and talk to your lawyer right away. Sending love and strength your way.

I am so so sorry. I agree with what everyone else suggested. I wish the innocence of children was not always so easily crushed.

I have gone through something similar just recently. My 7 year old son talked to me finally about his feelings of the divorce. We both cried so hard together. It made me realize that I am not the only one hurting. My son is hurting and angry. I have to be strong for him. I think that counseling or therapy would be a good idea. I have gotten my son very much involved at church and that has helped. He talks to the leaders more than he talks to me. I am with you and you and your family are in my prayers

parents don't realize the power they have to destroy or build up thier children. Your STBX has violated parent child relationship. He hasn't any rigthts to be with them alone whatsoever. I am so sorry this has happened . Counseling would be a great help in all this confusion. My heart goes out to you and your children.

This is beyond any respectable persons capabilities. REmember you are there for your children, have always provided them with the best and you will pull thru again. Prayers for you and your children. You will find the right help for him and you!

Yes, talk to your child's doctor and school as well. I have a lot of experience with SPED, and the more they know of what is going on at home, the more they can help. Also, the last thing you need is DHS getting involved because someone misunderstood what your son said.

My STBX is a sex addict, and may be bisexual. Message me if you want more advice. (((Hugs))) to you and your kids.

(((Hugs))) I am so sorry...Therapist time...I am so glad that People Here see this as a Problem, Too!!! Thank God for Normal People.

Our poor children.

Yikes!

well.. boy.. oh boy...yes.. the children.. both of them..and you need counselling.
He needs to know how to react to things he sees and how to control this anger, my eldest daughter has Austism too.. Asperger's so I know what you mean by not putting too much into what they say at times.
You need to know how to handle this so you need counselling too.

as for dad being bi-sexual or gay.. well don't overthink it. But do call him on it and make it clear that he is not to expose the children to anything like that ever again. Do not threaten him with withholding visitaion.
Do contact your lawyer and let them know what has happened.
Do have Dad pay for the counselling sessions.. this is real.

OMG, Im so sorry this is happening to you...you poor thing...It makes me so angry that we constantly have to repair damage done to our children by these ppl who are supposed to Love them and put their needs first!

Im sorry to say this but in the UK subjecting a child to porn is child abuse...you MUST seek legal advice!

Be Strong!! Your children need you!

We are all here for you
(((((((hugs)))))))

I would like to break from the chain and offer legal advise. One of the reasons seeing a licensed child therapist at the earliest possible time is because your husband "person" will have access to a lawyer as well and they will try to put the spin on this that you put this in your child's head. Not fair or just, but the all too often nasty truth. The sooner a Licensed Child Psychologist gets to interview your child the less likely this vile excuse will become. You definately need this "person" as distanced from your children as possible right now but unfortunately that is probably going to be a slow process. The Child Psychologist can help with that as well by contacting the law guardian for your child. If you do not have one get one when you go to court with a statement from the Child Psychologist at an emergency custody hearing. And if you don't have legal counsel get some, now. You only have one chance to save your son from this "person's" ugly influence. Once you make your argument before the judge, if he does not issue a temporary order for supervised visitation until findings from a Law Guardian for the child can be ascertained then he or she will most likely not grant one. One more tip if you are getting a lawyer, get a male. I know it shouldn't matter but we live in a stereotypical society and you need to make it look like you have a "defender" fighting for the rights of the child and against this "person." I know that last comment won't be popular but if you were a man I would tell you to get a female lawyer. It is sad but it does make a difference.
Good luck,
Dave
P.S. remember, AFTER the custody fight is over, the second stage in the grieving process is anger. It might make you feel better if you kick this guy's ass. Ok, might not work out legally, but you can still think about it.

something ppl don't seem to realize is that the children see more than we think. they see more than you and I.