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My poor son. I can't believe his innocents has been breached in such a vile way. Today my 5 y/o was acting out with his 3 y/o sister. He kept hounding her and hitting her with things. I tried removing the toy, timing out, separating them. It got really bad. Finally my son started to reveal that he was very angry and sad and we had this big heart to heart. We talked about missing daddy and that it was not my son's falt.
Then...then he said "Daddy is gone because he looks at naked people" We talked a little more and it came out that my son was witnessing my husband watch NAKED MEN on the computer! My son has said that once before but I didn't want to believe it because my son is mildly autistic and I thought maybe He misunderstood. I'm hysterical...I'm becomming convinced my husbands may be bisexual.
What kind of damage has been done. My son needs a psychologist. I'm so worried for my son.
Then...then he said "Daddy is gone because he looks at naked people" We talked a little more and it came out that my son was witnessing my husband watch NAKED MEN on the computer! My son has said that once before but I didn't want to believe it because my son is mildly autistic and I thought maybe He misunderstood. I'm hysterical...I'm becomming convinced my husbands may be bisexual.
What kind of damage has been done. My son needs a psychologist. I'm so worried for my son.
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Schedule a therapist visit with an expert ASAP before this becomes a lifelong issue for him.
Give him a HUGE hug too and tell him you love him all day long.
Sending strenght and peace your way!
My STBX is a sex addict, and may be bisexual. Message me if you want more advice. (((Hugs))) to you and your kids.
Our poor children.
well.. boy.. oh boy...yes.. the children.. both of them..and you need counselling.
He needs to know how to react to things he sees and how to control this anger, my eldest daughter has Austism too.. Asperger's so I know what you mean by not putting too much into what they say at times.
You need to know how to handle this so you need counselling too.
as for dad being bi-sexual or gay.. well don't overthink it. But do call him on it and make it clear that he is not to expose the children to anything like that ever again. Do not threaten him with withholding visitaion.
Do contact your lawyer and let them know what has happened.
Do have Dad pay for the counselling sessions.. this is real.
Im sorry to say this but in the UK subjecting a child to porn is child abuse...you MUST seek legal advice!
Be Strong!! Your children need you!
We are all here for you
(((((((hugs)))))))
Good luck,
Dave
P.S. remember, AFTER the custody fight is over, the second stage in the grieving process is anger. It might make you feel better if you kick this guy's ass. Ok, might not work out legally, but you can still think about it.