
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Then you need to clearly explain to ex, that it was a momentary weakness and it won't happen again.. ever.. if you let it happen again, you will have no credibility....then you need to learn to "get over it" so you slept with your ex... big deal... if you can keep him at bay and live with what it might do to your head.. cause the effect on your head and emotions will far exceed the physical pleasure..you will be just fine...
Hope that helps...
Other than that, I'm with Mike, Good Luck!
Other wise I am on the same train of thought as Wick. I almost gave in last Friday, when my wife called me about having a "booty call". I would have probably done it because sex has always been good with us. But she is the one that is choosing to leave so if she has a itch, the toy to scratch it in the bathroom closet. Personally I have felt nothing sexual towards her since she told me she wants to leave.
Anyway, what I am trying to say is, I hear ya! I feel that sooner or later I am going to give in to that temptation, especially since we still have to live together for now until we can get our finances in order so we can file! (Or whatever) Im sorry this happened, and yes, he will likely be hurt and confused. Who said Divorce was easy and straight forward?
He'll appreciate your honesty...but he may still hope it is more. Good Luck.