Ok first of all, my county said he was in a different county and couldnt serve him the papers yet..So he goes out and files in the same county as me, and has me served on thursday, not knowing that I already filed.I havent talked to him in weeks, no emails nothing. Then Last night he calls..Crying his eyes out asking me if I was ok, and that he misses us. So of course I felt bad for him and it threw me back about 20 steps. Was doing good too. Now Im all messed up again. So today he has been calling all day..this was his weekend with the kids, and never bothered to show. So he calls I finally answered and he wants to take the kids to his fathers tommarrow..Out of State..about 4 hour drive both ways. I said No, You are not supposed to take them out of state without my written permission, and I am not going to give that to you.. (his dad is a very mean man) So he gets pissed and hates me again. Said He missed us last night and will never do that again. He got extremly cold and cruel. I feel so stupid for feeling bad for him, I even invited him over and he never showed. I feel so stupid.. obviously his girlfriend had other plans this weekend, but why fling your emotional crap on me, he walked away from us didnt even look back. Why on earth would he call up crying and sobing? And I know this man he was sincere...Up and down...up and down...Ughhh I have to put a stop to this crap. He has to leave me alone period... Now he just called again, trying to get my son to give me the phone..WTF???????????? I said No, and my son goes mom that was rude...UGHHHHHH this is bullshit.
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