How exactly do we explain that the stbx goes from drinking coffe with you in the morning, and spending the evening with you every night, planning vacations, grocery shopping and working in the yard with you -- to just plain gone, can't even particpate in the divorce, literally overnight? From "good morning, how are you?" to absolute hatred and dismissal, in the span of a few days (seemingly)? I could never pull that trick off by myself, he has had to help me get tot he place where i do not want to ever talk to him or see him personally. The big difference is that I want to finish the divorce! He apparently doesn't! How do they just absent themselves like that? I know you guys ahve told me before, but i need a quick refresher.
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