Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I guess I'm griping. He's gone with OW who he denies her existance. I'm home looking after our special needs kids. I'm now managing all the duties of two with the exception of earning the money. (That is soon to change). I've got to study and take recertification classes. I've got to take my son to all his therapy and doctor appointments.(we'er currently ruling out a tumor obstructing his stomach) I'm the one navigating his issues with school. I'm the one who has to collect all the documentation for the divorce. I'm the one managing the kids emotional fall out.
What's he doing? Sitting in his new home that he bought with marital money and then paid it back after his 100% financing came in. Screwing around with OW. Running up his cell phone bill. Possibly working another job --most likely for cash so he can't claim more income. Working hard on how to manipulate and control me.
How do you leave the feelings of misjustice behind you? I'm doing the caregiving he's doing the selfserving.
What's he doing? Sitting in his new home that he bought with marital money and then paid it back after his 100% financing came in. Screwing around with OW. Running up his cell phone bill. Possibly working another job --most likely for cash so he can't claim more income. Working hard on how to manipulate and control me.
How do you leave the feelings of misjustice behind you? I'm doing the caregiving he's doing the selfserving.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
there does come a point, however, when you'll realize that those feelings are holding you back. they won't change how he feels, they won't punish him, and they won't make your situation any more bearable. when you get to that point you'll realize that you've got to move on - for yourself.