I am in the process of going through a divorce with my husband of 10 1/2 years. I live in RI and he moved to NC leaving me and our children ages 7 and 11 here. This Thursday is our first court appearance. I am sooo nervous about seeing him because I havent seen him since August but we talk on the phone regularly. He tells me that he is still in love with me but still wants a divorce...he keeps on sending me mixed messages. He said that we will start out as friends and work from there. I don't know if I can remain friends with someone who's hurt me like he did. He keeps on bugging me about custody issues...umm, hello...he's the one that left us and now he wants joint custody. I dont think so. Im not ready to let my boys go 12 hours on a plane by themselves. The way I see it is he left them so he should come here to see them.
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