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Oh how I dread tomorrow, first one in my

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life I have dreaded Christmas. I am so tired and stressed. I don't like being like this. I have to find my positive side again.
Stbx was to meet with his attorney today to discuss his plans to buy the house and to have me sign a quit claim paper. I refused and now he is so angry. I just want to live a somewhat normal life again and be able to have fun with my friends on DS and join in. Right now I feel like I would be a wet blanket and don't want to spoil anyones fun.
I am sorry if I upset anyone here. I just needed to talk. I know it is Christmas eve and I should be happy that it will be over some day, but he is so out of control and my family here (daughter and her children and husband) are trying to start their own family traditions and anyway daughter and her new son are still in hospital. He may get to go home tomorrow, we hope and pray.
God bless you all and hope you have a Merry Christmas.
Stbx was to meet with his attorney today to discuss his plans to buy the house and to have me sign a quit claim paper. I refused and now he is so angry. I just want to live a somewhat normal life again and be able to have fun with my friends on DS and join in. Right now I feel like I would be a wet blanket and don't want to spoil anyones fun.
I am sorry if I upset anyone here. I just needed to talk. I know it is Christmas eve and I should be happy that it will be over some day, but he is so out of control and my family here (daughter and her children and husband) are trying to start their own family traditions and anyway daughter and her new son are still in hospital. He may get to go home tomorrow, we hope and pray.
God bless you all and hope you have a Merry Christmas.
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((((((navaeh)))))) try to have a good Christmas
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I can't even make a simple decision about when to fix a stupid dinner for her. What in the hell.