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Offically Divorced...why am I sick

deleted_user
deleted_user
It's is official. Got the divorce decree today in the mail. So why the hell am I so sick and depressed!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I felt the same way when mine was final. I think it was just the realization of the finality of it all. It will get better.
deleted_user
deleted_user
There's a bit of a disconnect between knowing something personal in your heart and your head, and having all of that put in cold and calculating terms in paper. It does go away.

After you file the papers away, stop and think for a second about all of the possibilities and potential that are within your grasp, and possibly, what may be.
CanadianRose
CanadianRose
I know the feeling... there was a numbness... I opened the letter from my lawyer...and there was the Divorce Decree.. read it. Was numb.

I read it and put it in the envelope... took it out.. read it again... did this a few times in the next few hours. Kinda disbelief it was over.

No happiness.. just numb.

I wish you well. Now it is time to move forward and live the best life you can.
deleted_user
deleted_user
This is intende as a gentle question. Do you still have loving feelings towards him? If so, do you have any techniques for focusing on the future?
deleted_user
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Make yourself a wonderful future. Good luck and much happiness.
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