Glad he is doing better. Our prayers are with him.

Oh boy. Well that's a good sign. He must be a very active guy. She'll see that he gets his rest. Hmmm.

Yeah - I thought the same thing.. might not be good coming from the STBX

I hope he can get his laptop in the hospital, or get home to all of us real soon.

That raving lunatic probably did do this to him.

I can't imagine having her around will do him much good. She creates a ton of stress for him.

Argh, I wish I was living up there already!

I am sure that he will take control once he is home. She most likely has possession of the cell and with not being able to use cells in the hospital.. well he cant personally contact any of us.

I think I will make sure I talk to him at some point tomorrow. Then I'll see if he's up for me coming up to see him. If so maybe he can get a break from her. Besides, I can always use the fact that I have medical training. :-)

Hes gonna need rest Gaelyn. I doubt if he is going to want company.

I'm not talking about going up there to visit or keep him up. I was talking about sitting reading while he sleeps without the stbx around.

Sorry, but I'm a little insulted by the insuation that I would be so selfish as to do something that would be detrimental to Rob's health. By the way, I do have medical training and experience with heart conditions and surgical recovery including bypass patients.

You know what, forget it. Now I'm not much in a mind to contribute to anyone's relaxation.

One more note, I'm also a certified clinical hypnotherapist and NLP practioner. I specialize in helping people relax.

No no Gaelyn dont be insulted. I have dealt with a lot of people that have just come home from surgery and all they seem to want is to be alone and quiet.

Hey, guess what, I've done 24 hour shifts with people just coming home after quadruple bypass.

Sorry, I'm just a little crabby now. I have a sore spot for feeling like I'm being treated like I don't have a brain or selfish or like I'm a child. I spent 20 years of that, so it's little bit of a sore spot for me.

Glad he's doing better....I think all the ex-knives are trying to kill us men off.

And it's worse when it's done in front of a whole board of people.

If I wanted to feel like an idiot in front of a crowd I could have stayed with the stbs.

UGH! I hate feeling like this!

And now I feel worse because I feel like I've taken this thread and made it about me and it isn't. Damn!

OHHH Gaelyn... I would never insinuate that. Trust me I know how those feelings can creep up. I didnt live with an abusive man as long as you did but mine made sure he packed as much emotional and mental abuse into the last 5 years to make up for lost time. When I get into that mode of being defensive, I have learned to take a step back and breathe so that I dont jump and say something that I will regret. Hugs to you Gaelyn!!