Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Not knowing where or who to turn to:
I asked comcast to change the primary on our internet since my husband left.
They said no problem we can change it by resetting your husbands email and you can change the primary to yourself.
ok... then all of a sudden I am in his email: Need I say more.
Long story short.
He is not coming back. He never loved me and now that he has fallen in love with someone else he knows that.
He has fallen in love with my daughters teacher. A women who is married, but he can't stop thinking about for the last year. "long story short" I hurt so bad, I don't know what to say, do, or feel. financially I can't pay our mtg on my own. but not poor enough to get legal aide, or any financial assistance to even pack my kids and escape to our own safe haven. He moved out a month ago and is paying for 1/2 the mtg but that could end any time. I don't even know this man I married. He told us he was leaving for just a month to figure some things out. tomorrow is one long hard month of wondering. I have not heard from him in 3 days. Now I read all these emails to his therapist of how he has never really loved me. I have two kids. both adopted. My first husband walked out and my current husband even went so far as to adopt my daughter and now he is gone. Its just me, my 16yr son and 14 yr daughter. ... I know this is long...but I am desperate for anyone out there to tell me what to do??? I wish I could just disapear...it hurts so bad
I asked comcast to change the primary on our internet since my husband left.
They said no problem we can change it by resetting your husbands email and you can change the primary to yourself.
ok... then all of a sudden I am in his email: Need I say more.
Long story short.
He is not coming back. He never loved me and now that he has fallen in love with someone else he knows that.
He has fallen in love with my daughters teacher. A women who is married, but he can't stop thinking about for the last year. "long story short" I hurt so bad, I don't know what to say, do, or feel. financially I can't pay our mtg on my own. but not poor enough to get legal aide, or any financial assistance to even pack my kids and escape to our own safe haven. He moved out a month ago and is paying for 1/2 the mtg but that could end any time. I don't even know this man I married. He told us he was leaving for just a month to figure some things out. tomorrow is one long hard month of wondering. I have not heard from him in 3 days. Now I read all these emails to his therapist of how he has never really loved me. I have two kids. both adopted. My first husband walked out and my current husband even went so far as to adopt my daughter and now he is gone. Its just me, my 16yr son and 14 yr daughter. ... I know this is long...but I am desperate for anyone out there to tell me what to do??? I wish I could just disapear...it hurts so bad
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
You go on because there is no other choice. One day at a time. Your goal for now is to get through tonight and then the next day and so on.
We are there for you.
All is not lost for you. Keep your head up and do what you have to do. Accept, somehow that he is gone and a lost cause to you and your kids and put more energy into being the best mom you can be. You are not the only one in your home going through this, they are too. Remember this: It's hard to see clearly when you're looking through crying eyes.
I promise the pain will lessen, I promise, I was down on my knees caughing up blood and I found a way to stand back up.
YOU CAN DO THIS.