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My stbx comes in the living room where I am playing a game on my computer and ask me to put it on pause so she can talk to me. I am thinking "Now what!?" She then tells me that she is my friend and hates seeing me in the slump I am in. CAN YOU BELEIVE THAT!? She is the one who hurt me beyond words, used up all my money, and slept with a man (maybe more) behind my back and she is my friend and concerned about me. She is the one who put me in this slump and has the chance still to work things out and I am to be happy and nice? Yes, I may not be takingthe best care of myself like I should be right now but I am still in shock and hurt. What do you all think?
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I believe that "I want to be your friend", which most of dumpee's have had layed on us is an attempt to clear their conscience.
Unless you have kids, I don't so I told him we are not friends. We maintain a simple email relationship that is only there to tie up minor details of the divorce. There is no correspondence like friends. I agree with devonr, who would treat their friends this way?
Hello KelHurts I have to go with the group this is selfish guilt. Normal guilt would admit wrong doing and applogize. Selfish guilt has no intention of saying or doing anything that will make yo feel better. They just say empty words like I'm here if you want to talk or We can still be friends. That way when things go south during the divorce, and they will go south, they can throw it in your face that they wanted to be the bigger person.
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i don't treat my friends like that, i don't want to be his friend, i want to be his wife, the intimacy we shared makes us more than friends. i don't think i can have just half of what we had....i want it all or nothing....is that crazy or what?
"Friends:, "working together for the childen,... my ex told me story about a divorced couple in tis town wo vacation 2 to 3 week weeks out of the year togethter.This is her model for our future realtiohsip.
WHAT IS THAT! I mean one crazy person can make you crazy but two crazy peope off on "vacation togeter' I just cant see it.
I tink it a combo o guilt te selfish people is trying minmize.