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now i feel like crying

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thanks for all your responses and prayers and support. now i feel like crying, but my stbx is in the room . so i will go upstairs. anyone else feeling sad. i felt annoyed a little bit ago. now i feel sad. what the hell is this? this is a f'n roller coaster ride. when will it all end?
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having to Live with them is Hell. I am sorry.
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Bless your heart. You deserve better. :(

I feel sad too, but you need thehugs more than I. ((HUGS))
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Its hard for all of us. Maybe more for a woman because you are more sensual. Its tough no matter how you look at it
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DITTO, Tami.... Took the words right out of my mouth.
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Hi anmd,

It must be hard to have him live under the same roof. I couldn't do it. Will he be moving out soon?
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I was a constant wreck when stbx still lived inthe house after she announced it's over. The day she left I started feeling better. 4 months lateer and I can talk to her, see her without getting sad
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If your spouse was in the room, and you felt threatened, then leaving the room was probably the best choice. If you did not feel threatened, do you know what was stopping you from turning away from the computer, looking him in the eye, and telling HIM (not us)that you felt like crying? If you do know why you did not do that, perhaps you could probe that further, especially with trained help. But if you felt safe saying that to him, why didn't you?
And why did he come in to the room when he knew that you were there? Is it possible that he came in because he wanted to have a non-abusive exchange of thoughts with you? Only you can assess his mood (a skill we all developed as children) so what I am writing may be totally off base. Our life is only Hell because we make it so?
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