Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
The little fucker looked into the eyes of our amazing children and sayed he is not going to come with us for Christmas. LOOKED INTO THE EYES OF AN 8 YEAR BOY and said THAT. BROKE my 14 year old and 8 yr old. Counld not beleive it.
I have been so kind to him the last 7 days...doing his laundry, asking him over for dinner, etc. And he takes all of it. He left us! He moved us here. We both have had a hard year, but I have been trying to take the high ground to pull our family back together...he has done NOTHING but take. And now...that small, tiny, fucked up man will not spend christmas with us. That's it! I am over such a loser!!! LOSER!!! THAT man tonight is not the man I married. That's a fucken alien in mean man clothes!!! For the frist time I am looking at him and not wanting him back. I allways thought we would get back together, but who wants a LOSER like that. My kids are so much fun, and smart and kind and loving! That he could do that to them, add another childhood scare to them....I do not want him. That fucker can go to the land where all other losers go to! Good Bye to Him!
Thank you for letting me VENT. I needed to get this out to someone so I can go on being a great mom to my kids. You are wonderful for leting me tell this to you. Thanks!
I have been so kind to him the last 7 days...doing his laundry, asking him over for dinner, etc. And he takes all of it. He left us! He moved us here. We both have had a hard year, but I have been trying to take the high ground to pull our family back together...he has done NOTHING but take. And now...that small, tiny, fucked up man will not spend christmas with us. That's it! I am over such a loser!!! LOSER!!! THAT man tonight is not the man I married. That's a fucken alien in mean man clothes!!! For the frist time I am looking at him and not wanting him back. I allways thought we would get back together, but who wants a LOSER like that. My kids are so much fun, and smart and kind and loving! That he could do that to them, add another childhood scare to them....I do not want him. That fucker can go to the land where all other losers go to! Good Bye to Him!
Thank you for letting me VENT. I needed to get this out to someone so I can go on being a great mom to my kids. You are wonderful for leting me tell this to you. Thanks!
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
There is always a breaking point....and you have found yours.
While it makes you angry as all get out, at least, things are simpler now.
No more hoping, no more trying, and let him wash his dirty drawers his damn self!
You're on the right track thinking about what you want.
My breaking piont has cometh!
Time to put my jaw back and move on to a new and wonderful life minus the little alien fucker.
moments and they make it a bit easier, however not less f...ing maddening, to move on and realize they are NOT the person we married. I told my stbx the other day that did he know this would be our last Christmas as a family...silence. DUH, did he even think about that??? We, together, are such a fun family, so much laughter...he is throwing it away. I keep telling myself that this is a blessing in disguise and someday I will thank him for it.(for leaving me, not the kids) HUGS to you kulia, it's ok to vent. Have to admit, you did a good job! I'm right there with you!!!!!!!
I just read the first 3 words ..."The little fucker"
Then I knew....
it wasn't me !
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A lot.