Short background - ex filed for divorce on December 14th, moved out of the house that day, found out he was cheating on the 16th (with my former best friend) by checking credit card records (he charged up $30K in gifts for her). Here's what happened about 10 minutes ago: I got a call from my STBX and he told me that he wants to have our kids overnight at his girlfriend's house Wednesday and Thursday and then again Saturday and Sunday. My kids are 2 and 4 and I told him no. I said that that was way too much considering that they have not spent the night away from me ever. I said we could try Wednesday and see how it went, but that Saturday and Sunday were not going to happen. In the month since he left, he has not asked for them overnight once. Now that he got the divorce paperwork in which I asked for primary physical custody, he wants them overnight? Seems fishy to me, but what do I know. I just have a serious issue with him setting up house with her(she's already told my kids she's their new mommy). So maybe I'm overreacting. He did tell me that if I pushed for primary custody, he'd fight me and I'd lose (he's threatened to tell the courts I'm a drug addict and I'm on antidepressants and an unfit mother). I'm so tired of his threats. I'm so tired of him. I'm so tired of her. I was doing so well until this crap came up. I think he's in for a BIG surprise having the kids overnight, though. I have a feeling it won't be as "fun" as he thinks.
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