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But will someone tell me what this "co Dependancy" thing means? I have an idea, and I think I might fit this discription, but I am not sure. Any input would be a plus!
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
I DO hate it when I am happy and other people (yes I mean my husband) is a captain bring me down! I dont mean when he talks about whats bothering him, but when he gripes about whats wrong with
the world! and GRIPES AND GRIPES! I can feel myself deflating by the second when he talks negatively like that. Is that shallow of me? I mean I care about what hurts and bothers him, but its that constant griping! (His mom and step dad are WORSE!) Sometiems I just want to look at him and say..."whatever man, think WHATEVER! (as in whatever good there is think on such things!)
sorry, already derailing my subject.
"Codependence (or codependency) is a popular psychology concept popularized by Twelve-Step program advocates. A "codependent" is loosely defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for persons who depend on him or her."