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But will someone tell me what this "co Dependancy" thing means? I have an idea, and I think I might fit this discription, but I am not sure. Any input would be a plus!
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
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Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...
I DO hate it when I am happy and other people (yes I mean my husband) is a captain bring me down! I dont mean when he talks about whats bothering him, but when he gripes about whats wrong with
the world! and GRIPES AND GRIPES! I can feel myself deflating by the second when he talks negatively like that. Is that shallow of me? I mean I care about what hurts and bothers him, but its that constant griping! (His mom and step dad are WORSE!) Sometiems I just want to look at him and say..."whatever man, think WHATEVER! (as in whatever good there is think on such things!)
sorry, already derailing my subject.
"Codependence (or codependency) is a popular psychology concept popularized by Twelve-Step program advocates. A "codependent" is loosely defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for persons who depend on him or her."