That was great advice that Jaken, Melin and oastonee gave to rbusman about "What now". I have also copied them down and will check them all out. thank you. I joined this site last week looking for help with my anxiety. I then saw all the other support groups available. I joined the groups that I felt I belonged too. My anxiety and Gerd (stomach issues) I believe have recently been caused by my failing marriage. this started back in February. I believe but cant prove that my wife of 16 years has been unfaithful to me. This is a longer story for a different group so I wont get into all the details. this past month I have been trying to prepare for divorce. I believe I am between the betrayel and roller coaster on oestonee stages. I really would rather stick it out for my kids sake. I am very close to them. Ive tried since May. its tough for me since my wife treats me so poorly. I am doing my best and I am glad that I found this site. it has been extremely helpful. My major concerns with this is as follows. Will my kids be ok, How will I afford two households (I dont want my kids to move), will I be ok. I really dont want to be alone. I havent been in the dating game for 18years. I dont even know where to start.
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