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deleted_user
deleted_user
yesterday i was feeling empowered, but today i'm hitting a low. i live 5 hours from home, where my husband has run to, to take refuge with his parents. the first few days his mom called and emailed to let me know how things were going and if I needed anything, because I am truly alone down here. But after I emailed him to pick up his things no one has said a word. It's frustrating that no one is talking to me and I have no idea what is going on. I haven't had a conversation with him since he left. I guess I'm just frustrated and angry.
julik
julik
You're not alone. I'm in a similar boat. I do have family around me, but stbx, left last week - moved out everything that was his. I have no address, no communication, no phone number I have an email address and his phone number at work, where he might be leaving for another job. Frustration and anger, absolutely its normal. Hang tight here on the board, it will help.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Be unset and angry..those are your feelings and emotions..who's gonna blame you or judge you for your feelings? Be pissed off if you want.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I was in the dark too. When I decided to file and have him served, I didn't even know where he was. I emailed him and told him to go to my lawyer and pick up the papers himself!

This is hard enough under any circumstances. Sorry you are having this lack of communication.
deleted_user
deleted_user
well send an e-mail giving him a certain amount of time to come get his stuff, write, copy it, and save it. 30-60 days seems fair. and tell him your going to get rid of it. of course your frustrated and angry. you have every right to be.
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