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Not ready to date!

deleted_user
deleted_user
So I went on two dates with the same guy...decided I was definitely not ready for that. He was a bit too "serious" for me. I actually found myself cringing!

But I'm glad I got my feet wet, and I'm looking forward to the future for when I AM ready to date.

Oh, and I got stuck paying stbx portion of my cell phone bill...a total of $400 for him to talk to some woman. That special spot in hell must be calling his name by now. =(
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yikes! I hope you have the phones separated now. Glad to hear you are looking at your first dates as a learning experience. I went through the same process. It gets better.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good for you for getting yourself out there. There will be good ones, and there will be the Dates from HELL. Just don't let anyone else define who you are, you are in control!

As far as the STBX, F**K him! I hope that's the last one you'll ever have to pay.
deleted_user
deleted_user
EEK-Cell Phones...The business phones are all in MY Name...We still need to get that changed out.

STBX wants me to continue to use mine-Yeah, I am Sure he does ;-)

hehehe, I can send you My current cell phone to send to Your ex...then My stbx can track His calls...sound like a winner???
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well at least you found out early. I found out after 4 months dating someone, she was not ready. But 4 months leading me to believe there may be something there.
deleted_user
deleted_user
What happened? Did he end the date with a copy of his house key? Or did he say "OH my parents are going to love you when I bring you home for thanksgivings"?
ChiTownBear
ChiTownBear
Good Job getting out there! It will come in time I am sure. That is what they tell me. :)

Stay strong and get your money back for the cell phone bill.
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