My husband has recently told my that he is unhappy and that he wasn't in love with me anymore. there is no one else. There has just been alot of issues that hasn't been dealt with very well on my end. for starters, I am a control person. I don't control my kids but my husband. I grip when he wants to go some where with his friends or his family. And he don't do it often. I am not very good a disipline our teens. they run over me. and he doesn't like that. and when he would step in our 16 yr old would rebell. That is her step dad but recently adopted her at age 9. I didn't help with the money. it was always to over wellming for me. now we are in the process of selling our house. I am jealous, I want to be with him all the time. And now that we are seperated it kills me not to know what he is doing. He is working on getting an apartment and me ant ther girls are at my parents house. He said he needs space and time to see what his heart tells him, Right now it is telling him to back off. and it has been saying that for a month now. but we was trying the seperating but living in the house thing. and I kept pushing for answers. and sometimes still do. But this weekend. I have not called him, He has the kids and they came by to pick up some stuff and i went in the house and didn't speak to him, I know that I have to give him space or I am going to loose him. Please help .....