People don't get that we aren't just getting over the "spouse". We don't want them. It is the other things that make it hard. The not having an escort. The never seeing the step grand children again and not getting to tell them goodbye. The total change in your whole life plan. The dealing with friends who really aren't your friends because they never told you he was cheating. It goes on and on.
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