
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I am still married, but on the verge of divorce. He came home at 1 am the morning on Monday night after being at the bar. It woke me up when he pulled up, so I went downstairs, but he hadn't come in. There was an SUV in the driveway. He has a DUI, so I thought maybe someone had driven him home, and was picking up the person that drove him. Well he sat in the SUV with this person for about half an hour. I finally went out and asked him what he was doing and who he was with (I couldn't see in dark). Well it was a person who has done bad things with him in the past. I immediately walked back in the house. He followed, and person in SUV left. I accused him of doing this thing, and he went off on me, saying the person was just depressed and he was talking to him. I just don't believe him. It has only been three months since he has last done this bad thing. I just don't trust him. He didn't talk to me at all last night when I got home from work. I really don't know what to do. Should I apologize? I have no proof, so I either apologize and he keeps giving me the silent treatment.
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All I can advise is to pay attention to and follow your gut instincts. They're rarely, if ever, wrong.
DUI, out drinking, bad company? Red flag.
It is SUCH a relief to hear people say that silent treatment is abusive. My husband thinks he is morally superior because he doesn't say anything when he gets angry. No. He just storms out, doesn't come back, and refuses to communicate for more than a week on end. It is sadistic because he knows I am a talker.
and low & behold...the "friend" is who he left me for.
be careful...very very careful...and yes..the not speaking is high school bullshit and abuse!
No surprise, the one thing Silent Treatment can't stand is silence from the other.
Just make sure that bathroom gets finished ;-)