I found out while I was on deployment that my husband was cheating on me. He moved out before I got back and didn't even give us a opportunity to get counseling. He told me he had never been happy with us and that he only married me because he was lazy and didn't think he could make it on his own. I can handle that he has lied to me, used me and broken my heart. The problem I am having is what my daughter and grand daughter are going through. My daughter is not his by blood but accepted him as her dad. When this was happening he made no attempt to hide it from her. My daughter and grand daughter are hurting yet he does not seem to care. I made a dumb mistake tonight asking him if he felt any remorse over what he has done and his response was the emotional part of this is over. Am I supposed to turn off my feelings like a light switch? Are my girls supposed to do that? What is wrong with him? And what is wrong with me that it still bothers me? I should be angry but I still cry. I still wonder why?? Why me why did this happen. What is wrong with me?
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