I have been using this touted No Contact concept for a few weeks now. In addition I have been moving on with my life while at the same time remaining polite and available to talk about the kids whenever she needs. Here is the thing.the NC and detachment makes me feel better, but it appears to be harming her. She is starting to call less and lessadditionally when she calls now I do not hear any sadness in her voice. The exact opposite seems to be the casetoday when she called she was yelling at me on the phone and was actually very rude. So is this a normal stage for when the LBS implements NC? If so what does it mean? Is she acting this way because she feels she is losing control and that mad that Im moving on? Will it pass or is this what I have to look forward to for the rest of my life?
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