I want to have the no contact rule, but I still want to talk to him. I still love him although he is living with OW. He still says he loves me. I know that I would heal faster if I didn't talk to him daily. We have not filed for divorce yet as we are trying to figure out some of the financial stuff first. Everyone says I would be so much better off without him, and I believe this to be true also. I just cannot get my heart to join my head on this. After 16 year, I don't want to give up. Thanks for listening and advise.
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