Many people as a backwards way to make themselves feel better give the STBX a nickname. Mine was not original - just three simple letters - SOB. Still use it at times. What have you nicknamed the EX? Speaking of the terms EX and STBX - it seems strange to say theses words when talking about him. My recent solution is to speak of him as my last husband. He definitely is the last one that I married; besides being the first too. And I certainly dont expect to ever marry again so he can be the my last husband in that respect too.
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