
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I am an on-and-off NFL fan, depending on the year. I am NOT an Oakland Raiders fan. I have a ticket for the taking for Sunday's game in Oakland. I have been very moody behind this ivorce. And very lonely. But the ticket is with a group of union folks of whom I know like two people. It will take up a huge portion fo teh day. It sounds very rowdy and overwhelming right now. I mean, people get shot routinely at Raiders' games. I much prefer the 49'ers (been going to their game ssince I was a kid,m never been to a Raider game). I resisted cancelling until today -- then tried to cancel, and have been met with some serious attempts to reconsider. It jsut sounds liek a really long day, around way too many people, with a fair amount of travel involved, and I am sort of in a nesting mood. I will feel guilty if I don;t go, but I don't really want to. But then I question am I not going jsut becasue of the stupid divorce thing making me feel inadequate socially. I dunno. That's enuf for now. Any comment., whatever the nature, is appreciated. This has been bugging me bigtime for a couple of weeks now, on a variety of levels.
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I can totally understand wanting to nest and retreat from the public. An NFL game does sound like an overwhelming way to get back into the social thing; but it could be a good thing. You will get out of the house, it is a chance to meet new people, make some friends and maybe you will find that you like going out and socializing. I think you have many good points to not go, but going is to do something for yourself and not be alone. On some levels, isn't that better than nesting?
Plus, it's the NFL and you'll see some good hitting, which may help you as well b/c your frustrations can be placated with the sound of NFL violence.
Get up, dust yourself off and try to go.....