Hi all.. I am so glad to have found this site. I have read alot of the posts and have found them extremely helpful. My wife and I have been married for two years and have been together for a total of 5. Although I know how I got here, I just can't believe it. We both made many mistakes and it has lead us to this road. I love her tremendously, but she has decided that a divorce was out best course of action. I do agree with her, but it hurts like no other. I guess I am still in the denial stage, but I guess its normal. I have found lots of comfort being with my friends and family, but I needed a place where I could talk to people with no bias. Everyone keeps telling me that she is going to wake up one day and regret her decision. That really does not bring me to much comfort because bottom line is right now she is over it. Sorry for the rambling post... now time for my question... I know this is going to take along time, but right now I can not find anything positive in my life and as much as I try to enjoy what I once did, I can't. How do you get over that hump?
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