I have been with the same man 10 years, married 1 1/2 years. Everything was going well until Oct. He wanted to have a baby and I wasn't ready. I worked through my issues we pregnant in Dec. In Feb. he said he wasn't happy and wanted divorce. We went to couseling and after 3 sessions he said "we were fine". April comes and he moves out. He has been back and forth since then. I recently found out he has been cheating on me since Oct! I know about 4 women. He has been using drugs and even got himself thrown in jail. He cried wanted to come back and I agreed. He promised to be good to me. Two days later, he left agian and now he is saying we won't work and I need to move on bc I deserve better and he doesn't want to hurt me anymore. But then he will say he has time to think about what he wants because we can't get divorced until the aby is born. I am 7 mth pregnant and heart broken. Do I let go? How do I heal? I can't imagine him not loving me or being without him. I'm so sad for my baby. I know he can be good. He was once. I have been so good to him and we have built such a beautiful life together. How can he throw that away for drugs and other women? How can he do that to me and his child? Need comfort.....so sad.
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