How do you know your ready to move on??? I have a friend, it has been nothing but e-mails and phone calls, because he lives in another state, the communication has increased over the last month, but I often feel I am gripping and still too needy. He is a niced man I have known most of my life. He also has a lot of fear with relationships, been burned alot. I will see him in about two weeks. Seeing him doesn't really concern me. It is me. I guess I am afraid because I am being myself 100% fickled, needy, a little vain and at the same time completely insecure, but feircely independent. Sounds like a lot of contridictions which is who I am, LOL. This openess makes me vulnerable. I could fall into the old habit of trying to be what another person expects me to be, which a lot of women do especially early in relationships, but I am trying to be true to myself. Being me, I guess I am afraid noone would like me being me.....
Oh well, KIM
Oh well, KIM
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