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New House-First Night

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I slept!!! I had a fire in the fireplace. I had the Dogs on the Beach before we started to unload.

I am really feeling PEACE.

I want to thank Everyone who has helped me to keep my sanity while I got to this place. You all have No Idea how many times I wanted to just stop in my racks, but I couldn't...people were watching ;-)

Now for the next phase...learning how to support myself, again. That should be interesting. Thank God I have some Time. I am fortunate.

Right now I am just Thrilled to lay down my my rugs and have them actually FILL a room :-O NO ECHO'S!!!!!! So Cool :-D
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Wooooo Hooooo! I've been waiting to hear how it went this weekend. Was the fireplace awesome? One of my non-negotiables for my next home is a fireplace. I've said it before and I'll say it again, I'm so jealous! I think you're the first person I've met here and seen go through this transition. Good for you! Do you have pictures yet?
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congrats!!!! i wil be in the same situation as well. i am looking forward to it.
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tipote,
make sure you walk us all through your journey too. it's so exciting hearing about it.
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Way to go! I hope you enjoy your new home, get settled and make it all yours. Congrats!
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I am so happy for you. You deserve it; a good night's sleep and a new home. You have given me hope to one day move to my new HOME.

Rest and be happy.
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Congratulations!!!! Can;t wait til I'm there too!
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Congratulations!!!

I can't wait to be in that place also.
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I sure would like to see a picture of your beach. I lived my life in michigan. I dreamed for 20 plus years of going to Florida near ocean. Divorce and settled kids and grand kids kinda stopped that dream. Now you are bringing it up again...lol.
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WAY TO GO TAMI!!! You go girl..pave the way for the rest of us!!! I am so thankful for your peaceful feeling, there is nothing like it!
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congrats on your new home. Im looking forward to the time when i can say i have moved. Enjoy
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Ah a rug on the floor! I'll be content to sleep there on New Year's Eve!

I'm so inspired by you!

Margie
CanadianRose
CanadianRose
Let's get nekkid and do our happy dance now Tami...la la la la la laaaaaaaaa!

okay enuf nonsense... let's have a big hug ((((HUG))))) Im so very happy for you Sista.. be well.. be happy... continue to be strong!.. so happy for you!
Thriver
Thriver
I'm so happy for you!
And thanks for sharing the journey with us. We all feel a little share of your happiness.
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i'm so happy for you. and keep telling us all the great things your feeling and doing, it gives me hope. i'm in a 3 rm apt. with my 20yr. old, we do ok, but i miss being on my own. i know it's going to take a while for me to get where i want to be, but when you share, and even though i know it may be a couple of years. i can just keep the positive flow. gosh, i'm so thrilled that your starting a beautiful life for yourself, and i'm sure i can say for all of us, we sure are proud of you and your strength. be happy.
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I am so happy for you!! Thank You for sharing - you keep me motivated to keep going.
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