Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am about 85% sure I have found a house-I plan on moving Dec 1-I am so happy and sooooo scared-When my X left I moved into a dump of a house for about the same amount of money as this one-but it was about 80 miles a day round trip and i had an old clunker that sucked up $20 a day in gas-I was also making about $1200 a month less-this place is ten minutes from work. My fear is I hit rock bottom at my last house and had to run home to mommy(huge mistake)I will be very poor-my daughter and I prepared for this-Things are different this time-I am more grounded, I am not as sad, i have a better car, no commute,and i make more money. I need this i cannot move on until I have a place of my own, i am not away from home 15 hours a day, and I am not living out of boxes and suitcases. My fear is that I will find myself at the bottom again not able to make it-I can't do that to my daughter again-I am afraid to make the leap but I really think i can do it-should i stay where i am-I pay my mom five hundred a month, I spend two hundred on storage, and I spend four hundred on gas-about the same as my rent-should I go for it or stay where it is safe but miserable.
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Go for it Misty! You may have to struggle, but you will be happier!
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Go for it. I have struggled financially since I bought my own place, but am happy that I chose to keep my independence. It would have been a lot cheaper to move in with Mom, but would have been a step back in my life. Make yourself a really detailed budget and stick to it..you can do it!
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GO FOR IT!!!! You can do it!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
