This is my first time here and I am looking for some comforting words. Last Saturday (2 days before Christmas) I went grocery shopping - when I got home my husband was gone. He sent me an email later that day saying he needed to clear his head and that he'd be gone for Christmas! I have recently learned that there is another woman. My husband is working on his masters degree (in theology) The school is 8 hours away so he has been living there. This woman is also a student there - working to be a minister! She has a husband and children. I have been gong crazy not knowing what is going on. I have been looking at cell phone records and now know that he was checked in to a hotel in another state last night. The hotel is in the same city as the school - do the math. I am 41, he is 47. Second marriage for him, first for me. Our one year anniversary is next week. Yesterday he told me he would be willing to go to therapy with me - today I have not heard a word. Since we have only been married for 1 year I don't think I have any legal right to any assets. Plus I signed a prenup. I am a teacher - don't make much money. What should I do from here? I want my marriage back...how much do I forgive? Is it possible for him to go to therapy with me when there is someone else obviously on his mind? I need some words of advice. I honestly feel like my heart has been ripped from my chest - I can't even get through typing this without crying.
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