My husband moved out almost a month ago, we just had our 8 year anniversary, been together for 10 years. Said he loves me, but didn't think he was "in" love with me. He has been going through alot of problems. He is severly depressed and on top of that he crushed his hand at work and is now going through nerve block procedures. He has problems with alcohol and he is addicted to Xanax, which is doctor prescribed. I am very confused because he says he doesn't want to be married anymore, but he continues to come over to the house, sometimes 3 & 4 times a day. Came over this morning to bring all the Christmas decorations down from the attic. We do not have children together, but I have 3 from a previous marriage. He says he comes to make sure the kids are ok, but most times he is stopping during the day when they are at school. I love my husband very much and I still want my marriage to work. He says it is to late for counseling. I am feeling very lost. I cry all the time. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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