
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
New but already sad by someone else' happiness

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I filed for divorce 2 months ago,after 23 years and as hard as it was, I did it and I am glad I was that strong. My H needs help and I can't give it to him.
Anyway I have really good days and really bad days but today I felt so bad after seeing an older man and wife sharing their lunch and hardly talking, but you could see how happy they are, they have grown old together...there is no telling how much they have gone through and it made me smile, then I get this little green monstor pop into my head...this was suppose to be me...how can that be me now. I'm by no means ready for another relationship, but I miss the companionship so bad, I miss snuggling up at night before I roll over to go to sleep - I even miss when he gets up earlier than me and gets the bathroom first.
I want this to go away - I want to get on with my life and it is just so hard and doesn't seem possible.
Anyway I have really good days and really bad days but today I felt so bad after seeing an older man and wife sharing their lunch and hardly talking, but you could see how happy they are, they have grown old together...there is no telling how much they have gone through and it made me smile, then I get this little green monstor pop into my head...this was suppose to be me...how can that be me now. I'm by no means ready for another relationship, but I miss the companionship so bad, I miss snuggling up at night before I roll over to go to sleep - I even miss when he gets up earlier than me and gets the bathroom first.
I want this to go away - I want to get on with my life and it is just so hard and doesn't seem possible.
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