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So I was really thinking it was going to rock, but so far it is very very lonely.
I know its a very big adjustment and I need to give myself time, but the first night here I cried like a baby. I wondered if stbx even cared that he put me in a position where I felt scared, alone, and vulnerable, and jumped at every noise I heard.
I wonder if he would feel bad if something happened to me, being a tiny woman walking a dog alone at night. I wonder if he cares at all for what he did....and I'm pretty sure he doesn't.
I'm amazed by the feelings of insecurity moving into my new place have given me. I thought I'd be so happy, but I find myself so very very scared.
Part of me is amazingly optimistic, but I really was not ready for the emotions this has brought upon me.
I know its a very big adjustment and I need to give myself time, but the first night here I cried like a baby. I wondered if stbx even cared that he put me in a position where I felt scared, alone, and vulnerable, and jumped at every noise I heard.
I wonder if he would feel bad if something happened to me, being a tiny woman walking a dog alone at night. I wonder if he cares at all for what he did....and I'm pretty sure he doesn't.
I'm amazed by the feelings of insecurity moving into my new place have given me. I thought I'd be so happy, but I find myself so very very scared.
Part of me is amazingly optimistic, but I really was not ready for the emotions this has brought upon me.
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You will adjust. Really you will.
Strangely, that almost sounds inviting right about now! LOL
Hang in there sweet girl. It will get better. You will make that apartment yours and it will be your refuge! Please don't cry, you are making me sad. Margie
It won't be very long before it becomes Home and you feel the security wrap around you when you walk through your door.
I don't know how I will feel my first night "alone" in the new place...probably pretty good, but I have always spent a lot of time alone.