Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Does anyone feel that life will never be the same. I am feeling that even though I now one day I will be in a better place I find it hard to believe that I will love the same again, or feel the same way about love and marriage as I did before. It seems like those things for me have been tainted, and it is a very sad thing. I guess I am just having one of those days where I am dwelling too much.
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I am there too. I don't think I'll ever get to a point where I will ever let anyone close to me anymore.
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I feel the same way, guess I really did believe in "ever after" and now everythings gone. But I can't change that so I have to learn to change things that I can control. Trying to anyway.
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Isn't it reasonable to think "never the same" and "better than before" can be two different things? And possible.
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I think that many of us feel this way in the beginning and maybe even after a few months, but with time , I think it changes.. I know when I first thought about divorce 3 years ago, I did not ever think that I would feel or love again, but I do.. I love myself and now I see that I can love another,. I not only can love another, I think it will be better than before, if that happens, because I am different and I have grown.. I know what I want and don't want now.. What I will and won't accept in another. I also know that I won't settle or fall in love with potential.. Or I will be alone.. Simple as that. I respect myself too much and know that I only have so many years left and I want to spend them smiling as much as possible.. I am stopping the over thinking thing too.. It is the hardest thing I have had to change.. But in letting go of things I can not control, I have gained control, over me.. I am meeting people now and making friends and if it is meant to be for me to love again, I will give it my all.. What do I have to lose? Life is about risk.. Love is about risk.. Other wise I am just existing.. I want it all, Rodd and I hope that one day you will feel that way too.. Don't give up on life from one bad experience or two or three.. Learn from it., grown within yourself, and then one day when you least expect it, love may arrive and you will be ready to accept it.. Best to you and a hug of healing for your continued journey.. Kimmee
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