Hello I am a mother of a 10 yr old and 7 yr old, so called dh and I were living apart for about 11 days until he made his way back into the house with his petty excuses that the house he was staying at needs to be rented out. Bottom line he is a chicken little and cant care for himself, I had bought him small but nice things nothing big, he buys me nothing. now I just found out the account that his father of whom so called dh works for hired an accountant to pay off our joint debt into one loan so we just pay household bills and one credit card for urgent reasons only. I also found out that so called dh has an account set up for himself with my name not on it, but the accountant wants to set up a joint account for our household bills with both of our names on it, Ok I don't get it, why does so called dh need an account in just his name and then a joint account with my name on it used for household bills only. I said the heck with that I am going back to work I will work my butt off to open my own darn account and I will take care of the children, screw him and he has his own account that his rich father wants him to have, I get the short end of the stick, so we will split the bills in half and he will pay for child care considering he made me leave my job in the past, I am so angry and upset right now that I cant even begin to tell you, I think he is putting me in a place where he wants me and I don't think so, I will do it on my own, we will seek outside help but I will do it own my own with out his sorry butt. Why does he need an account in just his name and then a joint account in both of our names for just household bills, sounds and stinks to me. What do you think, Dont worry I got my walls up!
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