hi, I'm fairly new here and my first post so here it goes . just need to understand how my husband,who moved out two months ago and moved 350 miles away to our cabin can say I love you and always will and then says that he just wants to be friends and can not live with me. yes we have had a couple of bad years,we have been married 6 years.but what happened to the for better or worse that was said then.we have not filed yet.I know that there has been a lot of hurt for him and myself in the last few years,did not talk but fought alot and we live like strangers at times. I know that he talks to other women online and is friends with a friend of mine that is no longer my friend but his and she lives about 50 mile from where he is living but has said that they are just friends. I guess for me when I married him I was in it for the long haul and thought that he was going to be there and now he is not.so what with these guys that when it get bad just leave instead of working on the marriage,we have talked about some the problems and we know what the problems are ,I just do not understand why if you love someone, you can not try to make it work. if it was not for god and prayer I would be totaly lost.any one have any thoughts on how you can love someone and still leave,just trying to understand
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