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I sent my STBX divorce papers. With everything that has happened between us she is acting like she doesn't know if she wants the divorce.
Even though she is still in contact with the person she has an affair with. Even though she has said she said she doesn't love me anymore. Even though she has made no attempt for counseling and is trying to "figure this all out herself". She is trying to say that I am the one pushing for this divorce.
I sent the papers to the address she gave me and it turns out the zip code is incorrect.
I sent her a text asking if she got the paperwork because she said she would let me know if she received them. No text back. Now I'm calling her and the phone is going straight to voicemail. She has been busy at work but all she needs to do is sign one form in front of a notary and send it back. She could do that next week for all I care, I just want confirmation of receipt.
What is her deal ? I dont know how to feel that she seems to be avoiding this. It does make me feel good that she is not gung ho about it, but I don't want her to wait until she is good and ready to do this. Our whole marriage has been on her terms and I think she is suprised that I will not allow her to do as she pleases while she mulls over whether she wants to divorce or not.
Do you think this is a control thing or that she is really unsure?
Even though she is still in contact with the person she has an affair with. Even though she has said she said she doesn't love me anymore. Even though she has made no attempt for counseling and is trying to "figure this all out herself". She is trying to say that I am the one pushing for this divorce.
I sent the papers to the address she gave me and it turns out the zip code is incorrect.
I sent her a text asking if she got the paperwork because she said she would let me know if she received them. No text back. Now I'm calling her and the phone is going straight to voicemail. She has been busy at work but all she needs to do is sign one form in front of a notary and send it back. She could do that next week for all I care, I just want confirmation of receipt.
What is her deal ? I dont know how to feel that she seems to be avoiding this. It does make me feel good that she is not gung ho about it, but I don't want her to wait until she is good and ready to do this. Our whole marriage has been on her terms and I think she is suprised that I will not allow her to do as she pleases while she mulls over whether she wants to divorce or not.
Do you think this is a control thing or that she is really unsure?
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