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need to clean the house

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I need to clean the house just don't have much motivation now....any suggestions to get moving???

KIM
keepthehope
keepthehope
I just force myself it take long breaks inbetween. Managed to get laundry going and clean the kids room. Now is the long break.
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I will be watching this post, for sure! I need the same tips, Kim, lol.
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Put on some good fast music and dance through it!
BTW,, thank you for posting a normal discussion! LOL
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BTW,, also makes for great exercise and can be fun,, specially if you have a big dog that loves to dance too! LOL
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Loud, fast music...a task at a time...shake your butt the whole time!!!
Disco music is allways great!
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Call a cleaning service! lol
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I find listening to a radio station that rocks out, almost like dancing, but with a mop!! LOL
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this won't work for everyone, but http://www.flylady.com/ has helped me a lot. my stbx moved out and left me to deal with a houseful of his mess of a life that i guess he just didn't care about anymore. just trying to focus on one room at a time and for a bit at a time has helped. i just started cleaning the garage on Friday. Today I returned a bunch of unused stuff to the hardware store, got a bunch of credit and whooopeee--I can get a christmas tree this year for sure!!!
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Put on some music. That's how I used to get motivated to scrub the house from top to bottom.
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Do what I do. Clean it tommorrow.
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I like Music and Big Dogs to dance with :-D Both work well for me...however, most of my cleaning wouldn't BE there without the Dogs :-/ hehehe

I am not terribly great at discipline right now, either. Good Luck.
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a cup of coffee and a can of Xyience Cran-jazz, and away we go. I vacuumed the entire house today, busted out 2 super size laundry loads, dried, folded, in the draws, then cooked dinner. Also blasting a Rammstein CD helps as well. Good Luck.

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