Out of the blue my stbx sent me a Christmas greeting and asked if things were ok and if I needed anything to let him know. I laughed thinking he would be the last person I would ask if I needed anything. Then this morning I got an email from his mommy asking if I had gotten his email and he was making a effort. Again I laughed but was a little upset. Then this afternoon he sent me a second email wishing me a good new year and he knows i'm not going to respond and any email he sends in the furture will be strictly business. WTF does he want from me. I was the one who wanted to make things work. He threw everything in my face and walked out. Why is he trying to lay this guilt trip on me and what should I do. I want to email back but it would not be a nice email and I don't know if I want to start that. I could be really mean and tell him things that he probably needs to hear, but I don't know if I want to start screaming at him anymore. Just curious what your thoughts are or what would you do . I don't want to make things work anymore so that is not an option, but should I respond in someway and how?
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