I will do, kinda feeling blue myself.

I will go read it now. You have my support. Send me a message if you want to talk.
I hope you feel better very soon.

Your friend,

Lisa
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i don't know what to day other than i hope today looks just a bit better, it looks like you had to just purge from holding things in and trying to be so civil about all of this, and i know how horribly we hurt when our children do, it's a feeling that can't be explained. your children need you so much, you will help them to get through their fears and let them know how much you love them. i know that most of us here are virtual strangers, but there is a connection, we don't like to see you hurting so much, we love you. try to start a new day. your going to make it, your a very handsome man, you have a lot going for you, we all need to grow and learn from all of this. i could keep going because i want so bad for you to feel better, but i'll leave it here. love and hugs to you waverly, your worth it. be strong, we are all here for you and with you.

Read it and have replied to it! just want you to know we are all here for you and yes, we/I have been in the same spot you are in at this very moment... granted that was a while ago, but the memory does not fade!
Hugs!

One of the great things about this site are the Footprints. I didn't see them at first, then I began to notice them. Those who had walked in the same place as me, left footprints for me to follow in! It made this trek so much easier when I was able to see those footprints, and carefully step in them to lead me on.

Step carefully into those footprints (so that the person behind you can see them clearly too), they will lead you out of this mess, really they will.

There must be something in the air...today is my low-point since getting separated.

The journaling you did was great! I think it helps so much to get it out. Know that there are many people here thinking about you.

I've been where you are. Yes, the pain is tremendous, and so hard to bear. After 5 months, I find that it is lessening and I can slowly move forward with my own life, realizing that my stbx's issues are his to correct, not mine. Hang in there!

Hey, you have proven your strength by holding it together in front of your kids. You love them so much and that is a major part of the reason you are so upset. Life has dealt us a bad hand. Now we have to make the best of it.

You are a good person and that is why you are going through such a hard time. The heartless have little remorse or pain, but I would still rather be the one of good morals and virtue.

I am very sorry. Believe in yourself and grow stronger every day.